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Tuesday, March 14, 2017

So close yet so far

Hi readers!

I am back today. Just got back from volleyball tournament, and we lost.
It's a good experience though.

After taking dinner, I watched tv, and overheard that my housemate is crying.
It is so sad. I've faced the situation before.

And, the sadness made me want to blog.

I am 28, and I am not yet married or single lah.

When I see people around me, who is younger than me, got married so easily somehow it makes me sad.

People who don't see marriage is a lubuk pahala, of course they really don't care. And even make fun of me because I want to get married.

People said, the one who always talked about to get married, will marry last. The statement really bad. Why don't you pray for him/her? Tak salah pun kan?  Is it wrong if I want to get married?
Yes, life is not about getting married, got so many other things to do. But does the thing you do will last forever? No right?

I am still young, yes, second that. But, I will never be forever  28. Kan?

Another thing, that made me sad is, when you are stuck with tarik-tali-guy.
It is stressful.

When he cooked you your favourite dishes, is it because he wants to show his skill?
I wonder if it has meaning behind it.

When he waited for you at the summit of Gunung Kinabalu, took picture with you. Do you think, he is just there to take picture with everyone else?

When he tag you at the house to rent advertisement when you tell him that you want to find a new house. Do you think he is just being nice?

When he smile at you different from before, is it because he is in a good mood?

When people said that we got something between us, is it because we are always hanging out together like friends always do?

I am seriously confused. Am I the one who is perasan, or he is the one who is afraid of his own feelings?

I am so afraid to think what will happen next.

I don't know, who is my jodoh, when will be my time to get married.

I just want to remind you who read this, please respect people's view.
For you, getting married is bullshit, but it may not be a shit for some people.

Please don't make fun of others, as you may not know, finding a partner-for-life might be a real struggle for some people.

Please pray for the one who wants to get married. You may don't want to get married, it is your choice. Just doa yang baik-baik won't hurt you pun kan?

After so many heartbreaks,I am sincerely hoping that I will meet my one and only man who is serious with me and happily wants  to live with me for the rest of his life.

I hope, I can be the best wife to my man, the best mother and teacher to my children.

Just remember, your life is different from others. Don't compare and don't judge. You may don't know, the heartbreak that one is faced.

Allah, one after another ujianMu. Mudahkanlah, jangan Kau susahkan.

Sincerely,
Quyah


Tuesday, February 28, 2017

Welcoming 2017

Hi readers!

I'm back. Alhamdulillah.
Life is so much different now.

I was being transferred to the place that I've never thought of.
From an uptown girl, to a 'kampung' girl.
From a not-so-active person, to an adrenaline junkie.
From a lone ranger to a gang person.

I've hiked three mountains so far,

  • Bukit Kasut, Batu Niah
  • Gunung Santubong, Kuching
  • Gunung Kinabalu, Sabah

I have joined two marathon events so far, both are for 5km,

  • Color Run
  • Jewel Run

with one ultra marathon event for 12km,

  • Borneo Ultra Trail Marathon 2017 

And insyaAllah more to come.
Sounds fun right? :)

Other than that, I've joined singing competition, futsal tournament, zumba-ing, baking and now sewing! Teehee.

There's a lot more to list it here. I am very blessed with the current life.
Alhamdulillah.

I learn to survive and I'm still learning. It is a beautiful struggle.

Indeed, Allah itu Maha Pengasih, lagi Maha Penyayang.

p/s: Time's up. I've got report to submit tomorrow.

Till then.

Sincerely,

Sunday, June 19, 2016

Tips to Perth

Assalamualaikum readers!

Ramadhan Kareem. Day 14th of Ramadhan.

On last 21st May until 26th May 2016, I've been to Perth.
It was a great experience indeed!

I would like to give some tips to those who is googling about Perth. These are my lessons learnt for the trip. I've been jotting down the tips during my flight to Malaysia that day (26th May 2016).

The tips are as follows:


  1. Book flight, check the seasons. People in Perth said that spring is the best time to visit Perth. But, it is up to your preferences.
  2. Bring empty drinking bottle since the tap water in Perth is filtered. You can get drinking water anywhere in Perth. Since I've been told by our homestay's host. Like myself, I've brought 400ml, drinking bottle everywhere in Perth. It is very convenient. Hopefully I don't get this point wrong. You may check with other person who has been in Perth too.
  3. Don't spill water while using toilet, especially for ablution. You may use, spray water. To prevent the water won't spill on the floor. 
  4. For Muslim, wear proper clothes, to ease you pray.
  5. For those who is staying in homestay, you may check on the amenities that have been provided. For instance, towels, washing machine, iron, kitchen appliances. This is to make sure you won't bringing something that is already provided in the homestay. Like my case, our homestay has washing machine, therefore, I just bring 3 blouses for 6 days. 
  6. Wear proper shoes. Be fit for your trip. Bring medicine, or first aid kit, just in case.
  7. Don't forget to bring universal adaptor. If needed, please ask the host, if he/she can provide extension plug. 
  8. I've never been to four season country before this, Perth is my first time. The aircond that is being used there is reversible, meaning that, it can be used as heater in winter season. Just read the manual on how to use it. Our lessons learnt, because we don't read the manual on how to use the aircond, end up, we slept in cold room.
  9. If you want to visit Caversham Wildlife Park, there has been set of shows for you to watch. Before you start exploring the park, please plan according to the show timing, since, it is only allocated certain duration to meet the wombat, meet the koala and sheep shearing. If you happen to stay only half day here, you may need to plan properly in order to get to meet all the said animals.
  10. If you don't want to spend $20 for the lunch, please bring lunch. In Caversham Wildlife Park, they have provided picnic places, for those who bring their food.
  11. Freemantle Tips - If you plan to go to the Freemantle Prison, please don't stop by at Freemantle Market, because, for Freemantle Prison, there is allocated time for the prison tour. You may end up late, or miss the tour. Plan accordingly. Get the time for the Freemantle Prison tour, only then, you can visit the Freemantle Market. And, the market only opens on weekend. Please plan properly. :)
  12. This is my utmost lessons learnt. You may need to have back up plan, in case the place that you want to go is closed. For my case, we are planning to go to Penguin Island, and it happened to be closed due to bad weather. And we don't have back up plan for this, we end up strolling in Perth City shopping! And again, please plan wisely. 
  13. Don't forget to bring powerbank. 
  14. Please install Waze app, because we used Waze most of the time in Perth, to get to the places.
  15. Pinnacle tips - Please read the signboard before you start exploring the place. It happened to us, we walk without reading the instructions, luckily we don't get lost. We met wild kangaroo while walking here anyway.
  16. Before going to Perth, you may need to search for halal and cheap restaurant, nearby to the places that you plan to visit. Although it is easy to find halal food here, you may don't want to waste time and energy just to search for it. Therefore, please plan ahead.
  17. Commuting tips - Before commuting to places in Perth, you may need to survey for the cheapest way. During our trip last month, drive and park at Freemantle is cheaper than we use train, it is because we have 4 people to share the expenses. It may varies to the size of group. 
  18. Weather forecast - We have checked the weather forecast before going to Perth. It is almost accurate. Therefore, please note, to visit Penguin Island, Sand Dunes, The Pinnacles is not during shower. 
  19. In flight tips - I use AirAsia to Perth. As you all may know, you have to pay to get the in-flight services, therefore, you may need to bring, ipod, books, c-shape pillow. I played sudoku just to kill my time for 5 hours flight.

That's all from me. It may not covers all part, though. Hopefully the list will help you.
Have a nice stay in Perth. Please tell me if the tips help you or not.
Happy fasting people!


With love,

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Rezeki

Rezeki.
Datangnya perlu disyukuri.
Hadirnya disambut dengan tanggungjawab diri.
Semoga tidak lupa.
Semoga kita dalam redhaNya.

Rezeki.
Datang tanpa diduga.
Kadang membuat diri terpinga.
Kadang tewas dek tamak haloba.
Semoga datangnya membawa seribu rahmat.
Untuk kehidupan dunia dan akhirat.

Kerna akhirnya,
Rezeki datang dan pergi.
Bukti ianya bukan dalam kuasa diri sendiri.
Doa sebagai pengabdian padaNya.
Tenanglah jiwa.
Menghadapi kehidupan dunia.
Diharapkan dapat tenang berehat di sana.

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